Everyone may meet difficulties when they deal with some problems. When we experience some situations which we cannot overcome at once, we will get nervous, and they may drive us to the distraction. Fear will bring us physical and mental torture. As a result, the case will get worse and worse. And we will be lake of confidence to finish the task. So learning how to overcome fear is particularly vital for us.
Firstly, we must have a great control to let us calm down when we meet some emergency situations. Thus, our brain will get precious time to think about how to do with this terrible situation. On the contrary, if we are in a panic, the best chance to gain success will fly away. Although it may be difficult to do that, we should do it again and again, and then we will acquire enough experiences to overcome our fears.
Secondly, it is also essential for us to know some good ways which can overcome fear. When you are in a hard situation, but there are some people who still speak negative words to you, just ignore them. You should tell yourself that it’s my own business, so I must deal with it by my heart, and I can’t be influenced by other persons. Psychological hint will become a strong motivation to you to solve your problems. Furthermore, you should focus on your mind to think of how to be out of the wood rather than waste time to do some unnecessary things.
Finally, we should open up our train of thought to think over the situation. And it is benefit for us to let our friends give us a hand. Surely, we must mainly depend on ourselves. Thus, we will overcome our fear, get a strong motivation, and gain a clear way to finish our tasks.
In a word, we should have a good psychological quality to overcome fear.，and we need to learn how to be stronger.
To conquer our fears, we must go past them.
To fear is natural; to go past them is heroic. Fear is a normal part of life, symbolizing that there are new, extraordinary things to come across and face. To be able to see these things before they happen is a sign of wisdom. Fear is nothing out of the ordinary. To admit that we are fearing is to prove that we value our life.
And men should pay attention to the call of fears. To truly be a leader or someone who is heroic and brave, we should focus on getting past these fears. And it is frightful for people to go through life ignoring fears, because they may often forget their heart and step into life without responsibility.
To be born is to live. To live is to fear. To fear is to be challenged. To accept our fears is to be mature. It needs bravery, maturity and vitality to face our fears, accept the challenges and hope for the best.
I used to be very afraid of getting up in front of people and speaking. I would get sweaty palms and my stomach would be so tied up that I wouldn't be able to eat. I would experience so much tension in my neck and shoulders that I would almost always have a headache by the time I had to speak or shortly thereafter.
Each time I spoke though, I noticed afterwards that it wasn't that bad. This is a trend I've noticed throughout my life. Things I fear are never as bad in reality as I make them out to be in my mind.
So one element of training for fearlessness is to simply push ourselves to do things that we fear so that we have more opportunities to develop the wisdom that the things we fear are always worse in our minds than they are when we actually experience them.